Relationship Problems: Are you Hoping He’ll Change?

Are you frustrated with your significant other?  Have you been together so long that you know exactly what they’re going to say and how they’re going to react? Has the thrill that used to be in your relationship been replaced with the doldrums?

Relationship Problems 6And is your answer to all your relationship problems that you’re HOPING HE’LL CHANGE?

Are you ready to take an honest look at what’s going on in the relationship that you call the most important one in your life?

It’s all too easy to look outside yourself and, with your finger pointed ‘out there’, blame everything on your partner.

Let’s call this ‘the easy way’—tongue in cheek!—easy in the sense that none of it has anything to do with youIt’s all his fault! This is where relationship problems begin.

So what’s REALLY going on in your relationship?

  • Have you become bored with each other?
  • Are you always too busy for each other?
  • Has everything become predictable and dull?
  • Are you tired of how it is?
  • Are you wanting more excitement and for him to be more interested in you?

Relationship problems: Are you hoping he’ll change?

If you’re going to point a finger, turn that finger around and point at your own chest and think of it this way: everything starts with you.

No matter what it looks like, absolutely everything starts with you.

On some level everything that is showing up in your life is caused by you, in whole or in part.  At the very least, you play some role in how it’s going now.

If you want something to change in your relationship, how are YOU willing to changeWhat are YOU willing to do or be differently to produce different results?

“Can it be that simple? you might ask.  The answer is YES, absolutely!

Be that which you want in othersespecially your significant other.

Here are some simple ways to turn your relationship problems around:

  • If you want him to be more interested in you, start by being more interested in him.
  • If you want him to be more affectionate and more romantic with you, be the first.  Be more romantic and affectionate with him!
  • If you want him to communicate more with you, then 1) Be more attentive, 2) Communicate more with him, and 3) Share more of yourself with him.

Take on being that which you want in your wonderful partner and watch what happens!

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To your magnificence!

Andrea Woolf

‘The Queen of Having It All
Author of Ignite Your Life! How To Get From Where You Are To Where You Want To Be
Founder of IgniteYourLifeBOOK.com

Co-founder of WakeUpAbundant.com
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